Jealousy is a form of negative self-talk which research shows can cause anxiety and depression.

    It is in a woman's nature to enter a man's
household and domesticate his life. This is why having
a nice pad is such an important part of courtship. If a woman
can see herself as part of your world, her attraction
for you will go up. If she is disgusted or uncomfortable,
her interest will probably drop. So here are 10 ways to
make a woman feel comfortable at your place.
   
1) Have a Nice Place

    Obviously, the first thing to do is to get
a nice place. By nice, I don't mean expensive. Just be
serious about apartment hunting and find a "cool"
place even if it takes you a few months to find
one. If you know any friends who are great at finding
bargains, ask for their help.


2) Keep It Clean

    Girls don't like messy apartments. If you
want to take things further, you better make sure
your place is spotless (by guy standards, which
isn't that high) before you bring her back.   


3) Personalize It

    Clean and tidy doesn't mean "showroom
empty." If your place is too bare, she may find
that creepy because you may seem like the kind
of shady guy who moves from town to town.

4) Have a Picture Or Two

    To show that you are a real human being
and to generate conversation, have a few pictures
from your past. Guys without any pictures are,
once again, creepy.

    If you want to build social proof, then
have cool, adventurous pictures. It always works.


5) Have Good Reading Material

   
    Have some intellectual books or magazines
on your bookshelf. Women love to check out what
kind of books and magazines you read in order
to assess your education level and personality.

6) Be Classy

    Be classy. If you can afford it, have
a nice stereo system or home theatre. If you
can't afford it, then buy cheap poster prints of
famous paintings and put them up on your wall.
(I am not asking you to be fake here. I assume
that you will actually go read up on the
paintings!)


7) Act Casual As If She's Been There Before

    When she shows up, act like as if
she's been there before. This will create
a relaxed atmosphere for her. Don't do the
tour stuff. Just sit down on a couch and
relax.


8) Let Her Cook

    Set up a cooking date so that she
can cook for you. As soon as a woman steps
into a kitchen and cooks for a man, she
sees herself as part of the domain.


9) Display Trophies

    If you have any cool trophies,
display them as a way of building social
proof.


10) Display Some Sort of Musical Instrument

    If you play any musical instruments,
display it as a way of building social
proof and generating conversation topics.

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