Awhile ago, I talked about the different stages in my "romantic intelligence" model and how some old "players" are really losers because they are still stuck at a stage they should have abandoned years ago. Today I'm going to talk about how chasing after the wrong priorities can make you retarded over time as well.
If you have been reading my dating tips for a long time, you should know that one of my core philosophies is to constantly push one's self-imposed limitations and go further than other guys are willing to go. After all, most people are lazy and if you are willing to go further than them, then naturally you are going to have more success in the world.
It's actually really easy. Here are four ways to do it.
1) Cook Her Dinner
One easy way is to offer to cook her dinner or for HER to come over and cook YOU dinner. It puts the focus on food (and women can't resist great food...) instead of what may happen at your apartment...
If you need a little bit of extra courage, try to talk about a nice dish that you love to make or a nice bottle of wine that you'd like to open when you have guests over. REALLY try to sell it. If the woman gets excited or curious about it, invite her over for dinner so she can try it.
What do men really want, both in bed and in their emotional relationships with their mates? And if a married man ogles other women in front of his wife, what does it really mean?
Hi I have been reading some of your articles on picking up women etc... On Sacscene and I love this idea, this is great! I can finally get some questions answered. lol First off I was wondering what is a good ice breaker when meeting a woman and how to keep the conversation going and not letting it die out. I used to start out by saying to her that's a nice dress you wear it well, or something like that, but then I don't know what to say after that, I just stand there feeling uncomfortable until she walks away and says nice meeting you. I also have anxiety when trying to meet a woman, almost to the point where I feel like I'm going to pass out, lol What can I do to calm that? I know I am a nice looking man so I'm not worried about that part. Also how do you make a personality that women will like? Thanks for your help and I look forward to your answers! Chase
